Our little girl is starting school next week, and I’m not sure if that’s a bigger change for her or for me. It’s an exciting time for all of us and, as with many exciting changes, it’s an opportunity to go crazy with shopping. There are uniforms, book lists and accessories, and the sky is the limit when it comes to what a proud parent can spend. When the school happily gave us the uniform price list I took it home, read it, and had an actual panic attack.
When I calmed down enough to think, I decided that my mission was to carefully go through both the uniform and book lists, and work out what we really needed to buy and what was optional or could be substituted. It isn’t that money is tight and we can’t afford this stuff new so much as the planet can’t afford for us to be buying this stuff new.
The uniform was the easiest point to work on. At the school is a second hand uniform shop. The stock comes from lost property that is never claimed and donations from parents whose kids have outgrown the clothes. Every piece costs $2, which was music to my ears given a new dress costs $48.95. The range is obviously down to chance, but I was able to find five school dresses, two school jackets, and a long sleeve t-shirt with the logo on it. Some things need to be mended, but that is within my skill set. Total cost: $16. I don’t have to worry about my daughter getting paint or ink on her brand new uniform because most of the items already come with some.
To round out her uniform, I bought a few items from clearance racks at the discount stores. By shopping here I was able to save money and buy things without the logo, which means she will be able to wear these clothes as part of her regular wardrobe outside school. She doesn’t need a perfect colour match for shorts to wear under her dress, because close enough is good enough in this instance. I also bought a size too big for most items so that she can wear them for longer.
When it came to the book list, I was planning to substitute as many of the paper items for recycled versions as I could. Unfortunately I didn’t have a clue what most of the items on the list were. The only substitution I made this year was the ream of paper that we needed to buy; we already had an unopened ream at home, so she can use that instead. The school couldn’t believe that I was making a change that would only reduce our bill by $4, but they accepted it and I was able to reduce our acquisition by 500 sheets of paper. It might not be much, but every bit counts.
The final area where we had the potential to over-consume was on her school accessories. Excited relatives gave her a lot of things for starting school, such as backpacks and lunch boxes. They aren’t in the school colours, and it turns out that I just don’t care. If or when her things wear out I can replace them with the versions the school wants, but until then she can enjoy her gifts. She doesn’t even need new hair ties or pins, because she prefers liberating mine from the cupboard.
Compared to our initial expectations, we have been able to dramatically reduce our consumption as well as our costs. I did feel disappointed that I wasn’t continuing rituals with my daughter that my mother did with me until I realised that we’ll be doing the same things, just in a modified format. It has also been an excellent opportunity to talk to her about our throw away culture, reusing resources, and to teach her that new activities don’t always mean we need new things.
If you’re playing along at home…
… are there areas with your child’s education where you can cut back on consumption without compromising results? Please share the changes you’ve made in the comments below.